Mary Lee Carroll, LCSW Los niños Jonathan tenía seis años cuando murió en 1988. La trabajadora social Mary Lee Carroll, LCSW lo acompañó como voluntaria de hospice. El trabajo que ella hizo con él, y su espíritu inspiraron a la Sra. Carroll a desarrollar un programa de duelo pediátrico para un hospice en Conneticut. En 1994, el Júnior League de Waterbury hizo un donativo a la organización para patrocinar el Campamento Jonathan. En 1999 el Campamento Jonathan fue incorporado y ya no depende de ninguna organización. El Campamento apoya a las necesidades de las personas en duelo de Conneticut en la región de Watertown. Cada verano, el Campamento Jonathan patrocina un campamento diurno de una semana para niños que están en proceso de duelo por la muerte de una persona significativa en sus vidas. A continuación ofrecemos una lista de comentarios acerca del duelo y de tener una pena hechos por los niños que asistieron al programa de apoyo de una semana en julio del 2005. La pena es… Dura y pesada Triste Enojo y locura Única Vacío Soledad No es divertida, es guácala Confusión Dolorosa Difícil Mala No me deja concentrarme Siento mi corazón hecho pedacitos Difícil Muy triste y depresiva Nada divertida Algo que te quita mucho tiempo Como orillas sin limar Te deja con los nervios de punta Como usar ropa que te queda chica Agotadora Abatimiento Como si estuvieras en otra dimensión Amarga Cruel, malo, gacho Algo malo Algo que te fortalece Algo que nunca olvidarás Un hoyo negro Algo que les sucede a todos Muy triste y asusta Perder algo que querías Como tratar de correr con zapatos que te quedan grandes Enfrentar tus miedos Una carga que es pesada al inicio y que luego se aligera Como un incendio forestal De entrada acaba con todo. Pero luego todo empieza a crecer de nuevo de manera gradual y constante, con algunos topes. Pero: Algunas vidas ya se acabaron Puede que ya no encuentres la luz, pero depende de qué tan bien puedes ver en la oscuridad. Usar todo el día unos tenis que te quedan apretados. Cuando hace mucho calor y estás incómodo. Cuando usas shorts y hace mucho frío. La oscuridad cuando no tienes una linternita, y le tienes miedo. Cansada y frustrante Depresiva. De lo peor Además del apoyo que se da a niños y jóvenes durante una semana experiencial en el verano; el Campamento Jonathan ofrece grupos de apoyo durante todo el año para niños y padres, y sólo para niños y jóvenes. En noviembre de cada año, la organización también lleva a cabo un retiro para mujeres en duelo. El Campamento Jonathan, dirigido por un equipo de orientadores pediátricos en duelo, terapeutas y voluntarios entrenados, ofrece apoyo terapéutico individual o en grupo tanto a niños como a adultos en duelo. Los orientadores utilizan terapias creativas para contactar las emociones, como terapias de movimiento, arte, poesía y psicodrama para procesar el duelo y enfrentarlo de manera más exitosa. Hay otros programas disponibles en el país parecidos al Campamento Jonathan y, a menudo, son gratis para familias como la de ustedes. Si sabe usted de un Campamento así y lo recomendaría, por favor contáctenos a la siguiente dirección de correo electrónico: info@childrenshospice.org. Estamos haciendo una lista de Campamentos para que las familias puedan elegir entre ellos y la publicaremos en esta página de Internet. ### Traducción español examinada por Maribel Quiala, MSW, LCSW, miembro del Comité NASW Nacional sobre los Asuntos de la Mujer (MCOWI).

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in this article are those of the writer, and do not necessarily reflect those of the National Association of Social Workers or its members.

By Alyson Mischel, LCSW

Introduction

Historically, social workers are trained to work with the populations most in need of assistance. They practice in prisons, with drug users, the severely mentally ill, batterers and domestic violence victims, and with HIV positive clients. But, increasingly, social workers have private practices and treat people who can afford to pay for traditional 50 minute psychotherapy sessions. Regardless of the brand of social work practiced, or the population served, social workers can rely on concepts of media psychology to serve their clients.

Most everyone watches television, listens to the radio, or reads some form of printed press on a daily basis. Media is the 21st century’s glue – it’s what connects us and makes a Wall Street banker able to relate to a struggling waiter in Los Angeles. As a consumer who may communicate with a therapist online, or have a therapist use television and film as case studies, it’s important to understand the following basic concepts of media psychology and how they relate to psychotherapy.

Telemedicine

Telemedicine is the delivery of medical and/or psychological services at a distance with the use of technology like telephones or web-based systems. Treatment via telemedicine could involve� two medical professionals talking over the telephone in real time about a case and also the use of satellite equipment allowing a doctor in California to evaluate, diagnose, and treat, a patient in Brazil.

The focus of telemedicine is largely consultative, which is why there is a growing trend toward online, synchronous psychotherapy. Some psychotherapists offer online and telephone counseling services for marriage, depression, parenting, family, and grief issues.� The International Society for Mental Health Online,� the National Association of Social Workers and the American Psychological Association have issued statements about telephone counseling. Understanding how telemedicine works is essential for consumers since psychotherapists increasing use e-mail and the Internet to provide services.

Cinematherapy

Cinematherapy is the use of film as a metaphor to bring about positive growth in psychotherapy clients. Watching television and films may be a catalyst for healing and change. Movies� can be� “windows” to the unconscious in the same way that dreams and fantasies are. Watching films allows clients to become consciously aware, resulting in gained insight and emotional release. Cinematherapy works best in the tradition of Systems Theory and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which are the treatment modalities used by most social workers. Films may help clients become aware of their irrational beliefs and poor coping mechanisms. Cinematherapy is another tool like stories, myths, and fables, that psychotherapists use to treat their clients.

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A positive, compassionate, and enthusiastic personality, Alyson Mischel brings a special brand of empathy to her psychotherapy and life coaching work. Alyson combines her education and clinical training with her own experiences, and has developed a common sense approach for addressing life’s challenges. Alyson is a lecturer at the USC School of Social Work, and serves as a consultant for UCLA’s Educational Leadership Program, a doctoral program of education. She was formerly a clinical supervisor for the Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health. Alyson has counseled hundreds of people in the areas of career, relationships, health, and finances. A graduate of Stanford University, the University of Southern California, and a licensed clinical social worker, Alyson has been studying and practicing since 1998.

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Introduction

Families plan and prepare for major life events: attending college, getting married, having a baby, and retiring at the end of a career. However, few plan for events� such as how we would want our health care delivered if we become very ill.

Or some people may be adamant about not going into a nursing home but they fail to plan for securing long-term care insurance, home modifications, or having someone to advocate for them if they cannot communicate. Rarely do we think that far head.

These are decisions that we all should be thinking about.� They should be documented so that our family members, health care providers, etc.� will know our wishes for our care.

In generations past, people who were terminally ill remained at home, dying quickly from infectious diseases or accidents. Today, with the deluge of new medicines and technologies, we have become a “death denying” society, in which death is an enemy that must be beaten at all costs. We focus on fighting death rather than preparing for its inevitability.

Who Needs Advance Care Planning?

Every adult can benefit from Advance Care Planning.� � Planning is particularly important for those who are terminally ill.� Research shows that people suffering from chronic illness also benefit from advance care planning. Even healthy people should consider their wishes for end-of-life care and discuss their decisions with family members or professionals, before a health care crisis occurs.

Because an accident or serious illness can happen suddenly, and at any time, thinking about this topic when you are capable of making decisions is important. Sharing these decisions with your family helps to ease their burden and reduce their uncertainty if they ever have to make health care decisions on your behalf.

What Are the Benefits of Advance Care Planning?

Studies funded by the Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality (AHRQ) have shown that people who talked with their family, physician, or others about their preferences for end-of-life care had less fear and anxiety, felt more in control of their own medical care, and believed their doctor had a better understanding of their wishes. Other potential benefits of advance care planning according to the National Institutes of Health include:

• Decreased personal worry
• Decreased feelings of helplessness and guilt for the family
• Decreased implementation of costly, specialized medical interventions
• Decreased overall health care costs

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Ms. Linda Guhe, MSW, LCSW

The History of Tobacco and Health in America

Tobacco has been around since ancient times and� it has been significant throughout American history. When Christopher Columbus discovered America in 1492 he also discovered smoking tobacco. Tobacco proved to be quite appealing to those early explorers. As a result, tobacco from America spread to other parts of the world. Tobacco was first grown commercially in America in the early 1600s. In the 1800s, the revenue from taxed tobacco helped finance the Civil War. In the early 1900s, RJ Reynolds began producing and selling the first brand-name cigarette, Camel.

While popular and appealing, tobacco use has led to serious health problems in the United States and world-wide. Today, approximately 25 percent of Americans smoke. Fifty percent of those who use tobacco will die from a smoking-related illness, approximately 450,000 people each year. The number of Americans using smokeless tobacco ranges from two percent to 9 percent. Financial costs of treating tobacco-related illnesses in the US are more than� 50 billion dollars a year.

Health Care Providers and Tobacco Dependence

It may be surprising to learn that tobacco dependence is actually under-diagnosed by providers in the health care community. However, because of an increasing awareness in recent years of the physical dangers to health, along with financial burden for society, tobacco has been gaining more attention in public health education and research. For example, the federal government is focussing on the problem with its� Healthy People 2010 initiative.� � Among the government’s� health objectives for the years 2000� through 2010� is a campaign to promote the cessation of tobacco use.

There are reasons why healthcare professionals have failed in the past to recognize, diagnose, and treat tobacco dependence. For one thing, until recently, the subject of tobacco dependence as a treatable disorder has been limited in the formal training of health care professionals. As a result, in comparison to experts in other kinds of disorders, there are only a small number of researchers and specialists who provide scientific information about the effects of tobacco use and effective methods of treatment.

Money became available to fund tobacco dependence research as a result of the financial settlement of lawsuits filed against the tobacco companies by 46 states in 1994 and 1995.� The lawsuits were filed in response to financial burdens experienced by states in treating tobacco-related illnesses. Money and publicity from the 1998 Master Settlement Agreement (MSA) made between tobacco companies and the states that filed the lawsuit has helped fund, draw interest to, and generate tobacco research.

Because of an increase in research in the last several years, we now have a better understanding of tobacco. We now know that tobacco products contain both (1) harmful toxins that damage health and (2) nicotine, which is a powerful addictive drug. Research has also led to the development of evidence-based methods of tobacco cessation treatments. As a result, the number of specialists in tobacco and the treatment of tobacco addiction have been increasing.

Tobacco researchers and specialists are now providing health care providers with the necessary tools and guidelines to talk with their patients about smoking, and for offering tobacco cessation treatment. In addition, there are multiple agencies providing information to the public on smoking and tobacco addiction, and help for quitting.

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By Stephen Erich, PhD, LCSW

Introduction

The numbers of gay and lesbian adults and couples who are adopting children is increasing dramatically; at the same time, the number of adoption agencies willing to place children with gay and lesbian adults and couples is also increasing notably. What does this mean for children in need of healthy family environments? What does the research tell us about families with gay or lesbian parents, including those created through adoption?

First, a little background information about children awaiting adoption and the size of the adopter pool (parents interested in adopting). The number of children not living with their biological parents is at unacceptably high levels. Research suggests that there were 542,000 children in foster care in the United States in 2001 and as many as one third of these children may be eligible for adoption.

Many gay and lesbian adults and couples are interested in adopting children. However, discrimination has made it difficult for gay and lesbian adults and couples to complete the adoption process (Brodzinsky, 2003). Excluding gays and lesbians as potential adopters is not only discriminatory but it limits the number of potential adults available to adopt the thousands of children eligible for adoption.

Research on Families With Gay and Lesbian Parents

Although it is not commonly known, the research regarding parenting by gays and lesbians is very positive. The following list shows the important findings from research on families with gay and lesbian parents:

• Lesbian mothers have been found comparable to heterosexual mothers in their desire to be parents (Kirkpatrick, Smith, & Roy, 1981; Lewin & Lyons, 1982; Osterweil, 1991).
• Lesbian mothers have been found comparable to heterosexual mothers in their warmth toward children (Golombok, Tasker, & Murray, 1997).
• Lesbian mothers have been found comparable to heterosexual mothers in their parental behaviors (Harris & Turner, 1986).
• Lesbian couples have been found equal to or superior to heterosexual couples in dividing responsibility for chores equally, in financial cooperation, decision-making, relationship satisfaction and emotional expression (Brewaeys, Ponjaert, Van Hall, & Golombok, 1997; Chan, Brooks, Raboy, & Patterson, 1998).
• Gay fathers have been found comparable to heterosexual fathers in involvement with their children, intimacy with their children, provision of recreation, encouragement of autonomy, problem-solving and parental satisfaction, but superior in the way they respond to child needs, and communication of reasons for appropriate behavior (Bigner & Jacobsen, 1989a; 1989b; 1992; Peterson, Butts & Deville, 2000).
• Gay and lesbian couples value and desire commitment in relationships to the same extent that heterosexual couples do (Kurdek, 1995; Peplau, Veniegas, & Campbell, 1996)
• Children raised by gay and lesbian parents have no apparent adjustment problems that have been found to be related to their parent’s sexual orientation (Chan, Raboy, & Patterson, 1998; Flaks, et al., 1995; Patterson, 1994; 1997).
• In comparison to children raised by heterosexual parents, children raised by gay and lesbian parents have been found comparable in intelligence, behaviors, moral development, and peer relationships (Allen & Burrell, 1996; Falk, 1994; Flaks, et al, 1995; Tasker & Golombok, 1995; 1997).

Research on Children Adopted by Gay and Lesbian Adults

There is a limited number of studies involving children adopted by gay and lesbian adults and couples but once again the results are very positive. (more…)

By LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D, MSS

Introduction

It’s holiday time of year again when thoughts turn to shopping, giving, partying and—yes—making New Years’ resolutions. Even if a person doesn’t want to make them, reminders about resolutions are on the Internet, talk shows, the news and magazines. Unfortunately, these reminders highlight last year’s broken promises and the reality of breaking the same or new ones this coming year.

Many people avoid making them and secretly are ashamed of their previous failure. Jeanie, a teacher, summed up the feelings perfectly: “It’s like starting the New Year already defeated.”

The following guide to making resolutions that work can’t guarantee success, but it can lay the groundwork for changing old habits.

Start Small

One of the major problems with resolutions is that the freshness of the New Year often propels people to think too big. It’s easy to get swept up into the appeal of a clean slate and make big promises to change old habits such as quitting cigarettes or waking up earlier.

Janet, a free-lance writer, got caught up in false hopes by vowing to wake up before six-thirty every morning. By the third day, she had broken her promise twice. A wiser plan would have been to go to bed earlier once a week, plan to wake up earlier the next morning and then add more days slowly a week at a time.

Don’t take on too many resolutions at once. Janet thought she could both wake up earlier and then run two miles.

Expect the Inevitable Discomfort and Anxiety That Accompany Change

One of the mixed blessings about being human is the ability to manage pain, insecurities, anxieties and other problems through behaviors that work well enough. For example, eating may not be the best way to soothe feelings, but it works well enough so that giving up old eating habits then becomes at least as difficult as continuing to eat unwisely.

In general, behaviors that are biologically-based are the most troublesome to modify. These behaviors include actions that involve anger and aggression and all the pleasure-inducing activities such as sex, gambling, drinking, eating and shopping. Not surprisingly, because people are prone to excesses in these areas, promises to change these tendencies make up the bulk of New Years resolutions.

It takes tremendous will power to alter disheartening habits. As a result, many people fool themselves into thinking that the beginning of a New Year is a potent enough motivator. Such hopes result in global and bittersweet resolutions that are doomed to fail. A typical list of these resolutions includes:

• I promise not to hide my purchases from my husband.
• I promise not to eat candy and junk food while driving alone.
• I promise to fit into my high school clothes.
• I promise not to get upset any more with my pet, family and colleagues.
• I promise not to be sexually turned on by looking at other people.
• I promise not to lie to my partner—at least not big lies.
• I promise not to fudge my work at my job—at least not big fudges.
• I promise to stop cheating on my partner.
• I promise not to lie about dents in the car.
• I promise not to carry a balance on my credit card.
• I promise not to buy things I don’t really need—whatever that means.

Making resolutions that address these issues, however, is often the most important decision. Aim small for big results. For example, a resolution that addresses secret spending might be to designate one credit card or checking card for the home budget that includes a set limit on fun purchases. (more…)