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NASW Adoption Awareness Month Special features of adopted child and aspiring social workers, resources for social workers

Former foster child Thomas McRae was adopted as a teenager and now does public speaking to inspire others.

Former foster child Thomas McRae was adopted as a teenager. McRae now plans to become a social worker and  does public speaking to tell his story and inspire others.

National Adoption Day Campaign “We Never Outgrow the Need for Family” has special meaning for aspiring social worker Thomas McRae

The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ Administration on Children and Families is commemorating National Adoption Awareness Month in November with the campaign, “We Never Outgrow the Need for Family.”

Thomas McRae, a senior psychology major at Cheyney University of Pennsylvania, knows how true these words are.

McRae’s mother was absent and his father had difficulty raising him alone so he placed Thomas in a series of friend’s homes in the Washington, D.C. area. Thomas was injured by gunfire while sleeping on a couch in one of those homes. As a result authorities placed him in foster care.

Thomas ended up moving from foster home to foster home, often because his anger made him disruptive. At one point he was even put in a hospital psychiatric ward. However, Thomas never gave up hope of finding a permanent family.

“I entered the foster care system in 2004 and had just turned 11,” he said. “I had longed for a permanent family – if just a single Mom or Dad.”

A social worker named Cathy Stein tried to help Thomas find a permanent home. She helped Thomas get featured on “Wednesday’s Child,” an NBC TV news segment hosted by Barbara Harrison that spotlights children who are seeking adoptive homes.

Thomas also was a guest on a radio station and attended holiday parties designed to connect children to potential adoptive parents.

Friendship turns into Family

It was a friendship with sixth-grade playmate Dawson Hylton that unexpectedly led to Thomas finding a new family. The two friends bonded over a common interest in wrestling and Thomas was soon a frequent guest at the home of Dawson and his mother Joi Morris, who lives in Forestville, Md.

“Whenever I came to his house I told him I wished my foster parent was like his Mom,” Thomas said.

When Thomas reached the age of 16, he realized he would soon age out of foster care without family connections.

Thomas McRae (left), adoptive mother Joi Morris, and adoptive brother Dawson Hylton.

Thomas McRae (left), adoptive mother Joi Morris, and adoptive brother Dawson Hylton.

There are more than 400,000 children in foster care in the United States this year and one out of four is waiting for an adoptive home. More than 23,000 children aged out of the foster care system last year without finding “forever families.”

Youth who age out of foster care often lack support and are more prone to experience unhealthy outcomes, including homelessness, poverty, incarceration, health issues, and unwanted pregnancies.

“I called and asked (Dawson’s) Mom if she could adopt me,” Thomas said. Joi Morris said she would at least consider it.

Thomas went into a group home for six months. During this time Joi Morris decided to adopt him and took the training classes she needed to do so. She formally adopted Thomas on Nov. 22, 2010 when he was 17 years old.

“I got adopted as a senior in high school,” Thomas said. “Now I always have a home to come to. I always have family.”

McRae plans social work career

Thomas will graduate in a few weeks with a major in psychology. He also plans to pursue a degree in social work to help others. He already does public speaking to tell others about his experiences and educate the public about foster care and adoption.

He is looking forward to spending the holidays with his adoptive family.

“People take things for granted. When you think about how many youth in foster care don’t have families. The holidays are a hard time for them. They don’t have anywhere to go.”

“I am just blessed to have a family I can come home to,” he said.

NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF SOCIAL WORKERS ADOPTION RESOURCES

Practice

Child Welfare Standards

The NASW Standards for Social Work Practice in Child Welfare is a basic tool for social work practice in child welfare that might include family preservation and support, out-of-home care, family foster care, kinship care, residential group homes, adoption, independent living, child day care, adolescent pregnancy and parenting services, hospitals, and nontraditional settings such as faith-based facilities.

 Child Welfare Specialty Practice Section (for NASW Speciality Practice Section members only)

The Child Welfare SPS provides NASW members with free Continuing Education credits and up-to-date information on practice issues and trends.

Reducing Barriers to Same sex Parent Adoptions: An Interview with Dr. Jeanne Howard

 NASW Press Books

 Macro Perspectives on Youths Aging Out of Foster Care

by Mary E. Collins

Social Workers and Child Abuse Reporting

A Review of State Mandatory Reporting Requirements

NASW General Counsel, NASW Legal Defense Fund

 Social Work Speaks (10th Edition) NASW Policy Statements

NASW Press

(Includes Child Abuse and Neglect, Child Welfare Workforce and Foster Care and Adoption policy statements)

The Children’s Bureau: Shaping a Century of Child Welfare Practices, Programs, and Policies

Katharine Briar-Lawson, Mary McCarthy, and Nancy Dickinson, Editors

 How to Screen Adoptive and Foster Parent: A Workbook for Professionals and Students

James L. Dickerson, Mardi Allen, and Daniel

NASW Helps Start Here Consumer Website

Adoptions and Foster Care

NASW SocialWorkersSpeak.org website (social workers in the news, film and television):

Comedian, actor Alec Mapa says Social Workers are Unsung Heroes in Adoption, Foster Care

ABC Family’s “The Fosters” may raise awareness of LGBT families, foster care

Film on Aged Out Foster Children Completed

3 comments

  1. NASW is publishing many articles in adoption and foster care. Yet the liability insurance available to us as social workers and members specifically excludes issues with adoption and foster care. I have been active in both for over 30 years as a worker and adoptive parent. It seems that the change in the insurance policy indicated that social workers should no longer work in this area. I have written several letters to NASW about this concern but have not received a reply nor have I seen a change. I did receive a reply from the insurance carrier that this exclusion was in the service of keeping the rates lower.

    • Mr. Courtney:

      Thanks for taking the time to contact us. Could you please forward me the letters you have sent so I can put them in front of our Membership staff, who work directly with our insurance affiliate?

      Greg Wright
      NASW Public Relations Manager

  2. Is there any plans for NASW to start and maintain a list of resources for parents that wish to adopt?
    Thanks
    Gerald Bowman

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